Sexual Intelligence

Marty Klein (2012)

The author has worked as a sex therapist and marriage counsellor for three decades and has noticed that while most people say what they want from sex is pleasure and closeness, that is not what they focus on during sex.

Klein argues that sexual intelligence = information + emotional skills = body awareness. It is what gets you from adolescent sex to adult sex and from the idea that "sex has to validate me" to " I validate my sexuality".