Patricia Love & Steven Stosny (2007)
The authors aim to present a practical guide for men and women to assist in addressing the challenges that relationships bring. The premise is that while women want to talk about the relationship problems because they believe it will help, men do not want to talk about them because they know it will make things worse. The key therefore is to find a way of connecting and understanding the other; a way which goes beyond words. It's not just about communication.